November 19, 2020

18 Things To Raise A More Confident Child

his post is based on an article from acclaimed psychologist Carl Pickhardt.

Did you know that less than 1% of youth players reach the professional ranks?

You probably did, so do coaches. We state the obvious when we say that to break into these ranks you need to be beyond exceptional. We know all of this and we are objective enough to know that the chances of this happening are very, very slim. Yet it seems at times that we are willing to sacrifice it all for 3 points on Saturday. No matter the damage. We should remember that youth sports are about developing better players and better people, and that winning is most frequently not a good parameter of good coaching.

Carl Pickhardt, a psychologist and author of 15 parenting books, says on his article   ’18 Things to Raise a More Confident Child ‘  that a kid who lacks confidence will be reluctant to try new or challenging things because they’re scared of failing or disappointing others. This can end up holding them back later in life and prevent them from having a successful career.

This article   invites all readers to self-reflect on:

  1. How do you do at tip #1 “appreciate effort, no matter if they win or lose?” and tip #8 “never criticize their performance”?
  2. How can we still give honest, realistic feedback while still implementing these strategies?
  3. In tip #4, the author encourages us to allow kids to “act their age”, are we doing this or demanding that they be ‘more serious’ and ‘act like grown ups’?
  4. How might you implement Tip #9 “Treat mistakes as building blocks for learning” and tip #13 “praise them when they deal with adversity”?

Thank you Parents for taking the time to read and reflect over these questions. You’re doing it for your children.

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East Penn Rush is excited to expand our competitive opportunities through participation in the Atlantic Premier League (APL)/Acela , providing several of our younger Premier and Elite teams with another high-level environment for competition and player development. The Atlantic Premier League offers competition for boys and girls beginning at the younger age groups and features multiple levels of play. For the 2026–27 season, APL offers an Acela First Division along with a second division, creating opportunities for clubs to place teams at an appropriate competitive level. For East Penn Rush, joining APL/Acela is particularly important for our Premier and Elite teams below the U13 age groups . While many national-level leagues and pathways begin at U13, APL/Acela gives our younger players an opportunity to experience a highly competitive regional environment earlier in their development. Competing Against High-Level Programs One of the biggest benefits of APL/Acela is the level and variety of competition available throughout the region. The league attracts competitive programs from Pennsylvania, New Jersey, Delaware, Maryland and surrounding areas. APL/Acela competition has included teams associated with Pre-MLS NEXT, Pre-Academy and other high-level developmental programs . Published league results, for example, show APL/Acela competition involving teams such as FC DELCO Pre-MLS NEXT, Keystone FC Pre-Academy, Philadelphia Union Juniors, Real Futbol Academy and other strong regional programs. This gives our younger Rush teams an opportunity to regularly challenge themselves against different playing styles, stronger competition and organizations with established academy pathways. Building the Pathway Before U13 Our goal is not simply to enter teams into another league. The addition of APL/Acela is part of the continued development of the East Penn Rush player pathway . For our younger Premier and Elite players, the U9–U12 years are critical developmental stages. Players are learning how to apply their technical ability in increasingly faster and more demanding game environments. Playing against quality opposition requires players to make decisions quicker, become more comfortable under pressure and develop a deeper understanding of the game. APL/Acela gives us another platform to challenge those players before they reach U13 , when additional regional and national opportunities become available. The pathway is designed to progressively prepare players for the next level: East Penn Rush Development → Competitive Travel → Elite/Premier → APL/Acela → U13+ Regional & National Opportunities For players who continue progressing through the club, this experience can help prepare them for the competitive demands they will encounter as they move toward our older Premier teams and opportunities such as the National 1 (N1) League . More Opportunities. More Competition. More Development. East Penn Rush continues to build an environment where players do not have to wait until their teenage years to experience meaningful, high-level competition. Adding multiple teams to APL/Acela allows us to better match our Premier and Elite teams with competition that challenges them at the appropriate stage of their development. It also expands the range of opponents our teams can face beyond traditional local league play. Our objective remains the same: put players in environments that challenge them, support their development and prepare them for the next step in their soccer journey. Participation in APL/Acela represents another important step forward for East Penn Rush and our commitment to creating a complete developmental pathway from our youngest players through our Premier and national-level teams. One Club. One Pathway. More Opportunities.
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